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Post by Claire on Tue Jul 17, 2018 5:53 pm

jp762 wrote:
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Claire wrote:You equated Lesbians to men JP.
No I didn't. Honey's reply to LM Yeah??

Anyway never mind.

You said she was either a man or a lesbian eh

I think this could be a good discussion actually.

I personally find that offensive - the same way I would find equating a gay man to a woman.

My nephew is gay - he's male. My friend's niece is gay - she's female.

I also don't think there are words like "yeah" which are used more frequently by one gender.

This isn't personal. It's something that I think we should discuss. People of either sex being gay doesn't change their gender or make them act like another gender. They're the gender they were born as - they just like people of the same gender to have sexual or loving relationships with.



You're taking it way out of proportion. I guarantee you I wasn't 'actually' thinking what you're insinuating. This is where light-hearted banter can get lost with the written word sometimes, IRL in the flesh we have other things to go by like the way someone is saying things etc

But sure I guess it could be a good discussion.

Honestly Claire I have no problem with any gay person whatsoever. My philosophy as always is I pretty much don't care who anyone is as long as they treat me ok I'll do the same. And in case you point it out, I said 'pretty much', because obviously if I find out beforehand that someone has done something really scummy I'm not going to treat them in the same way.

I don't think I am. I'm just opening it up for discussion.

Sometimes we say things which people could take offence at - me included - not singling you out JP.

I don't for one minute think you're prejudice against anyone - I think you're a bit like me - you take people as you find them no matter what their sexuality, creed, colour or political persuation is.

BUT, for some people things like that could be offensive.

Do you get what I mean?

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Post by Claire on Tue Jul 17, 2018 5:54 pm

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Re: Sexual Banter on Forums

Post by jp762 on Tue Jul 17, 2018 6:00 pm

Claire wrote:
jp762 wrote:
Claire wrote:
jp762 wrote:
Claire wrote:You equated Lesbians to men JP.
No I didn't. Honey's reply to LM Yeah??

Anyway never mind.

You said she was either a man or a lesbian eh

I think this could be a good discussion actually.

I personally find that offensive - the same way I would find equating a gay man to a woman.

My nephew is gay - he's male. My friend's niece is gay - she's female.

I also don't think there are words like "yeah" which are used more frequently by one gender.

This isn't personal. It's something that I think we should discuss. People of either sex being gay doesn't change their gender or make them act like another gender. They're the gender they were born as - they just like people of the same gender to have sexual or loving relationships with.



You're taking it way out of proportion. I guarantee you I wasn't 'actually' thinking what you're insinuating. This is where light-hearted banter can get lost with the written word sometimes, IRL in the flesh we have other things to go by like the way someone is saying things etc

But sure I guess it could be a good discussion.

Honestly Claire I have no problem with any gay person whatsoever. My philosophy as always is I pretty much don't care who anyone is as long as they treat me ok I'll do the same. And in case you point it out, I said 'pretty much', because obviously if I find out beforehand that someone has done something really scummy I'm not going to treat them in the same way.

I don't think I am. I'm just opening it up for discussion.

Sometimes we say things which people could take offence at - me included - not singling you out JP.

I don't for one minute think you're prejudice against anyone - I think you're a bit like me - you take people as you find them no matter what their sexuality, creed, colour or political persuation is.

BUT, for some people things like that could be offensive.

Do you get what I mean?
I get it. But what we write sometimes can be quite different to what we are actually thinking.

That can work in a number of ways, someone could say something that on the surface looks pretty innocent but actually their mind isn't thinking that way. On the other hand someone could say something that on the surface looks a tad dodgy but they aren't actually thinking like that.

Like I said sometimes it can be tricky and real life is easier really, because we have the way people are saying things and body language and things to go by.
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Re: Sexual Banter on Forums

Post by jp762 on Tue Jul 17, 2018 6:04 pm

Claire wrote:Remember I'm a toxic influencer.  Very Happy
What idiot said that. haha

I wouldn't call you a influencer or manipulator(slightly different obviously) You're not trying to do any of that, unlike some who 'try' their very best and then some. titter
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Re: Sexual Banter on Forums

Post by Claire on Tue Jul 17, 2018 6:11 pm

jp762 wrote:
Claire wrote:Remember I'm a toxic influencer.  Very Happy
What idiot said that. haha

I wouldn't call you a influencer or manipulator(slightly different obviously) You're not trying to do any of that, unlike some who 'try' their very best and then some. titter

That lovely woman called Vam. Very Happy

I agree with your post above. Good for discussion though eh?

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Re: Sexual Banter on Forums

Post by jp762 on Tue Jul 17, 2018 6:14 pm

Claire wrote:
jp762 wrote:
Claire wrote:Remember I'm a toxic influencer.  Very Happy
What idiot said that. haha

I wouldn't call you a influencer or manipulator(slightly different obviously) You're not trying to do any of that, unlike some who 'try' their very best and then some. titter

That lovely woman called Vam. Very Happy

I agree with your post above. Good for discussion though eh?
If you want of course. I'm not sure we have any genuine prejudice people on here though it might be a really one-sided discussion with lots of agreements.

But that isn't a bad thing though. Very Happy
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Re: Sexual Banter on Forums

Post by Claire on Tue Jul 17, 2018 6:20 pm

jp762 wrote:
Claire wrote:
jp762 wrote:
Claire wrote:Remember I'm a toxic influencer.  Very Happy
What idiot said that. haha

I wouldn't call you a influencer or manipulator(slightly different obviously) You're not trying to do any of that, unlike some who 'try' their very best and then some. titter

That lovely woman called Vam. Very Happy

I agree with your post above. Good for discussion though eh?
If you want of course. I'm not sure we have any genuine prejudice people on here though it might be a really one-sided discussion with lots of agreements.

But that isn't a bad thing though. Very Happy

Possibly not. I like the way the forum is going tbh.

It's a shame Aqua left - she could have had lots of threads to post in!

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Re: Sexual Banter on Forums

Post by jp762 on Tue Jul 17, 2018 6:40 pm

Claire wrote:
jp762 wrote:
Claire wrote:
jp762 wrote:
Claire wrote:Remember I'm a toxic influencer.  Very Happy
What idiot said that. haha

I wouldn't call you a influencer or manipulator(slightly different obviously) You're not trying to do any of that, unlike some who 'try' their very best and then some. titter

That lovely woman called Vam. Very Happy

I agree with your post above. Good for discussion though eh?
If you want of course. I'm not sure we have any genuine prejudice people on here though it might be a really one-sided discussion with lots of agreements.

But that isn't a bad thing though. Very Happy

Possibly not. I like the way the forum is going tbh.

It's a shame Aqua left - she could have had lots of threads to post in!
Tbh that one is a bit of a mystery. All seemed very sudden and it seemed a bit contrived. eh She posted about many things and is clearly intelligent.
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Re: Sexual Banter on Forums

Post by Raymundo Sunshinez on Wed Jul 18, 2018 3:59 pm

Suppose it can be misinterpreted.

Anything like it is absolute verboten in American workplaces now due to lawsuits and the thread of losing your job.
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Re: Sexual Banter on Forums

Post by Honeybee on Wed Jul 18, 2018 4:17 pm

jp762 wrote:
Claire wrote:
jp762 wrote:
Claire wrote:
jp762 wrote:
What idiot said that. haha

I wouldn't call you a influencer or manipulator(slightly different obviously) You're not trying to do any of that, unlike some who 'try' their very best and then some. titter

That lovely woman called Vam. Very Happy

I agree with your post above. Good for discussion though eh?
If you want of course. I'm not sure we have any genuine prejudice people on here though it might be a really one-sided discussion with lots of agreements.

But that isn't a bad thing though. Very Happy

Possibly not. I like the way the forum is going tbh.

It's a shame Aqua left - she could have had lots of threads to post in!
Tbh that one is a bit of a mystery. All seemed very sudden and it seemed a bit contrived. eh She posted about many things and is clearly intelligent.

Step forward Hobbit’s source. ring bell

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Re: Sexual Banter on Forums

Post by jp762 on Wed Jul 18, 2018 4:24 pm

Honeybee wrote:
jp762 wrote:
Claire wrote:
jp762 wrote:
Claire wrote:

That lovely woman called Vam. Very Happy

I agree with your post above. Good for discussion though eh?
If you want of course. I'm not sure we have any genuine prejudice people on here though it might be a really one-sided discussion with lots of agreements.

But that isn't a bad thing though. Very Happy

Possibly not. I like the way the forum is going tbh.

It's a shame Aqua left - she could have had lots of threads to post in!
Tbh that one is a bit of a mystery. All seemed very sudden and it seemed a bit contrived. eh She posted about many things and is clearly intelligent.

Step forward Hobbit’s source. ring bell
Quite possibly you're right.
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Re: Sexual Banter on Forums

Post by Claire on Wed Jul 18, 2018 5:35 pm

Honeybee wrote:
jp762 wrote:
Claire wrote:
jp762 wrote:
Claire wrote:
jp762 wrote:
What idiot said that. haha

I wouldn't call you a influencer or manipulator(slightly different obviously) You're not trying to do any of that, unlike some who 'try' their very best and then some. titter

That lovely woman called Vam. Very Happy

I agree with your post above. Good for discussion though eh?
If you want of course. I'm not sure we have any genuine prejudice people on here though it might be a really one-sided discussion with lots of agreements.

But that isn't a bad thing though. Very Happy

Possibly not. I like the way the forum is going tbh.

It's a shame Aqua left - she could have had lots of threads to post in!
Tbh that one is a bit of a mystery. All seemed very sudden and it seemed a bit contrived. eh She posted about many things and is clearly intelligent.

Step forward Hobbit’s source. ring bell

One of them Wink

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